Can you be honest, and see if you agree with me?

BE HONEST !!!!!!!! I've been struggling with the comfort-ability of ity lately. In the last 20 years or so, we've been told over and over that this is NOT a lifestyle choice, and that we should accept people the way they are. During these years, I've met a lot of openly gay people that I've come to like, and so I started to feel guilty about judging whether they were born like this or not. BUT, since then, a lot of them has changed back to Not being gay. What??!! So now, they are straight. OK, that's fine, but when is someone going to stand up and tell the world that it is a lifestyle choice???!!! I would rather applaud the person who says " it's wrong, I feel it is wrong, but I'm doing it anyway", than the liar who says it's not a choice because they don't want to hurt someones feelings! I get it, you have a friend, or family member who is gay, and you don't want to disagree with them. I'm sure that there are a lot of people born that way, but i also bet that most of them were just exposed to at TOO early of an age to remember. Either way, your choice is your choice, and I'm not bigger than God who forgives all(if asked), so I Love you all anyways. I just wish people would stop with this "it's not a choice" thing.