Always dreaming of a family friend we had a while back..ual dreams and him dying in a fire, etc?

Talk about being obsessed over an old flame literally, lol. Maybe your emotions over him being in combat is causing you to dream about him .Also, your past feelings for him and the fact that he is married is causing you to want to reignite this old flame because you are wanting what his wife has. Not him, but a relationship with someone you are very attracted to and have strong feelings for. He is your ideal man and you are really wanting that right now. Good luck :)